Success can be daunting. Many self-destruct once there.
We have an inner thermostat dictating how much love, success, and originality we allow ourselves. Going beyond often triggers self-sabotage, returning us to our comfort zone.
Benjamin Hardy, PhD calls this “The Clarity Paradox,” which unfolds in phases:
#01: Clarity of purpose breeds success
#02: Success brings options and opportunities
#03: Increased options lead to diffused efforts
#04: Diffused efforts erode the very clarity that led to success
You neglect the mindset that got you where you are.
And success is the catalyst.
Michael Hopf says:
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And weak men create hard times.”
When times are favorable, re-focus; commitment weakens.
You reap what you sow.