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What Dinosaurs Can Teach Us about Modern-Day Relationships

A Jurassic Journey Through the Phases of Love

Ricky Lanusse
7 min readApr 12, 2023
Photo by Katie Smith on Unsplash

It’s another rainy day here in Patagonia.

I’m commuting to work, reading a book about dinosaurs.

Because, why can only kids know everything about them?

But it’s hard to concentrate.

Not because of the rain. Or the speeding, the turning, and the sudden stopping.

I just can’t keep from glancing over at my anonymous seat partner’s phone and seeing him swiping likes on Tinder with no mercy. There is zero judgment in his choices: he’s on a hunt.

And that’s when it hits me: he’s a Tinder T-Rex, looking for an innocent Tinderella to feed him.

And furthermore, I realize we all act like different dinosaurs during different phases of our relationships.

It only depends on the type of diet we are on.

1- The Teenage Raptor

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In this phase, you’ll experience a teenage love like no other. You’ll feel like you’re the only two dinosaurs in the world, and…

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Ricky Lanusse
Ricky Lanusse

Written by Ricky Lanusse

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